AI AI AI RATHER THAN OI VEIBeauty is in the eyes of the beholder. People see you differently than you see yourself. In shidduchim, this is crucial because others are looking at you through their own eyes, not yours. That’s the main fatal flaw with current shidduch methods. People write their own profiles, describing themselves
What Determines Who Marries Whom? In rank order of importance 1. Compatibility: – Emotional Compatibility: Sharing a deep emotional connection and understanding. – Personality Compatibility: Having complementary or compatible personalities. 2. Shared Values and Beliefs: – Core Values: Similar values regarding family, religion, ethics, and life priorities. – Life Goals: Alignment
Use your head to narrow down the possibilities, use your heart to recognize your one and only. The Torah recognizes the schism between the logic of the brain and wisdom of the heart which is deemed preeminent. To illustrate the wisdom of the heart, let’s get to the heart of the matter. Let’s talk in
We live our lives distorting reality, at least to some extent, to the way we want it to be, not the way it is. Nowhere is this more salient, as in shidduchim. Shidduchim has its own protocols – usual and customary practice – which does not change because that’s the way you want it to
