“Soon by you.” These three words, though often uttered with seeming kindness, are nothing short of a devastating blow to Jewish singles. Each instance is a cruel reminder of the gaping void in their lives, a merciless jab at their deepest insecurities. Singles already endure the torturous pressure of social gatherings, steeling themselves against the
AI AI AI RATHER THAN OI VEIBeauty is in the eyes of the beholder. People see you differently than you see yourself. In shidduchim, this is crucial because others are looking at you through their own eyes, not yours. That’s the main fatal flaw with current shidduch methods. People write their own profiles, describing themselves
What Determines Who Marries Whom? In rank order of importance 1. Compatibility: – Emotional Compatibility: Sharing a deep emotional connection and understanding. – Personality Compatibility: Having complementary or compatible personalities. 2. Shared Values and Beliefs: – Core Values: Similar values regarding family, religion, ethics, and life priorities. – Life Goals: Alignment
These features are integrated in Yismach. Yismach harnessed AI technology to aid shadchanim by comparing your “Looking For” with every possibility’s “About Me” for the best fit. This advancement has made the matchmaking process far more efficient. Further, Yismach’s AI provides insightful explanations on why specific pairings are suggested by shadchanim, based on the narratives
TRANSACTIONAL RELATIONSHIPS It is not love It is a negotiation. Marriages that start off or degenerate into transactional relationships will never be mutually satisfying and not sustainable. Even more egregious, it may possibly violate Torah commandments, including but not limited to the prohibition of not taking revenge (לא תקום) and to not to bear a
Farce of Speed Dating In a world consumed by the allure of instant gratification, if not love at first sight, then never. In this dizzying, relentless merry-go-round, the ceaseless pursuit of a ‘meet cute’ moment, that fleeting spark of connection, the delusion of co-creation and manifestation, and the elusive assembly line of endless alternatives invariably
Groundbreaking AI integration enhances matchmaking efficacy while preserving the traditional shidduch system Yismach, a leading matchmaking organization, is proud to announce the extraordinary results of its groundbreaking Artificial Intelligence (AI) powered shidduch platform, which seamlessly integrates AI technology with the expertise of experienced shadchanim. In a recent test run, Yismach utilized advanced AI algorithms to
Marriages Built on Quicksand Marriages built on American values are doomed. America no longer calls it marriage, but partnership. They degraded a loving relationship to a functional, profitable entity to jointly accomplish common goals, a business arrangement as easily dissolved as formed. In addition, because of a culturally induced fear of intimacy, fear of commitment,
Where is it written that a yeshiva bochur is obligated to pay a hotel for drinks or a restaurant for a meal, and taxi to take her home? It only engenders contempt. Both the guy who feels he is spending money he does not have and the girl who thereby is imbued with a false
The concept that gender is neutral is being strongly promoted and enforced, with government forms required to be gender-neutral in America and Israel, and some states even criminalizing non-compliance. Additionally, the belief that children can choose their gender is gaining acceptance, but Jewish law expressly prohibits it. Castrating a man is strictly forbidden, according to
